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\nComment by L on 18 Aug 2009 at 5:55 am<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
Hey Karen,<\/span><\/p>\n
Thank you so much for being there. It truly means a lot to me.<\/span><\/p>\n
Have you ever had somebody lie to you for months and make you think like they actually give a shit about you and then completely cut you off for no reason?<\/span><\/p>\n
That\u2019s what he did. He\u2019s just like everybody else he just lies more. I really hate him. I hope that someone does the same the thing to him someday. I want him to feel as bad as I feel right now. It makes me mad to think of him laughing at me. I do have some nice people in my life, but it\u2019s going to take a while for me to trust. I trusted him and he completely shattered it.<\/span><\/p>\n
Hope all is well with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n
Dear L,<\/span><\/p>\n
I’m sorry that you have been hurt. Yes, I\u2019ve had someone lie to me. I understand how hurt\u00a0you feel; I’ve been there, too! \u00a0It’s paralyzing, uncalled for, and leaves\u00a0you shattered.<\/span><\/p>\n
It’s so hard to trust, especially once your trust has been broken time and again. I continue to have a difficult time with trust. \u00a0But when I finally find someone\u00a0I can trust,\u00a0it feels\u00a0good,\u00a0and is\u00a0a great accomplishment for me. \u00a0Through therapy with Dr. Baer, I learned about trust. \u00a0Trust can be\u00a0the most beautiful feeling in a relationship. \u00a0I hope you find someone one day you can trust again. <\/span>Please give yourself time to heal.<\/span><\/p>\n
I know you want him to feel as bad as you do.\u00a0 Just remember not to say something that you may regret later. <\/span>Step back, take a deep breath, and breathe until those dark thoughts pass. <\/span>Then you may have a better vision of all that’s happened. \u00a0Sometimes, when feeling hurt, bigger and more regretful mistakes follow. \u00a0See him for who he is. \u00a0You are special and need to be respected. \u00a0I’ve made mistakes on this myself, but I do try my best.<\/span><\/p>\n
I\u00a0understand your pain. \u00a0Let’s hope\u00a0you have a better day…<\/span><\/p>\n
Wishing you all my best, <\/span><\/p>\n
Karen<\/span><\/p>\n
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