{"id":2145,"date":"2010-04-02T23:34:17","date_gmt":"2010-04-03T04:34:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/?p=2145"},"modified":"2010-04-02T23:34:17","modified_gmt":"2010-04-03T04:34:17","slug":"karen-answers-laine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/?p=2145","title":{"rendered":"Karen answers Laine"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--StartFragment--><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><em><span>Comment by Laine\u00a0on 25 Mar 2010 at 9:58 am<\/span><\/em><span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Hi Karen,<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>I am curious about your views on sex after being a victim of sexual abuse? Also how does a woman like yourself deal with viewing sex in movies and films? And as a now integrated multiple? Do you deal with background hang-ups? I know my question is a bit personal but needed for education purposes. I don\u2019t expect any deep uncomfortable secrets, just basic info. I respect your ability to share and help people. I admire and respect both you and Dr. Baer. Thank you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Laine,\u00a0Paris<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Dear Laine, <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>My views on sex? I try to not think about my past abuse. I have been married and have two grown children. I believe that keeping my mind in the present makes me less affected by what happened to me over thirty five years ago. The only hard time I have with movies is when viewing aggressive acts, such as beatings, hurtful words, and degradation. I am a woman with normal feelings and urges. I am no longer in an abusive relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Thank you for admiring and respecting my healing and work with Dr. Baer. That&#8217;s very important to me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Karen<\/span><!--EndFragment--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Comment by Laine\u00a0on 25 Mar 2010 at 9:58 am Hi Karen, I am curious about your views on sex after being a victim of sexual abuse? Also how does a woman like yourself deal with viewing sex in movies and films? And as a now integrated multiple? Do you deal with background hang-ups? I know [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2145","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-karens-answers"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2145","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2145"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2145\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2147,"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2145\/revisions\/2147"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2145"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2145"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2145"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}