{"id":282,"date":"2008-10-17T13:33:44","date_gmt":"2008-10-17T13:33:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/switchingtime.wordpress.com\/?p=282"},"modified":"2008-10-17T13:33:44","modified_gmt":"2008-10-17T13:33:44","slug":"karen-answers-a-friend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/?p=282","title":{"rendered":"Karen Answers A Friend"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><a href=\"http:\/\/switchingtime.wordpress.com\/2008\/06\/14\/qa-with-karen-question-1\/#comment-277\">Comment by A most grateful friend on October 16, 2008 11:51 am <\/a><br \/>\nMy dear friend, \u201cKaren\u201d,<\/p>\n<p>Knowing you has brought me peace. Peace that you needed to keep for yourself. If it weren\u2019t for you and your caring nature I wouldn\u2019t be where I am today. Being an inspiration to me and all of those who know you is a wonderful thing. The problem is you kept nothing for yourself. I learned from you never to give up. I learned from you to have faith. I even learned how to have a kind heart. Stop taking care of everyone. Who comes first? You do! Another lesson I learned from you. You can\u2019t fix everyone\u2019s heart only God can.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKaren\u201d, may your tormented soul find peace.<\/p>\n<p>A most grateful friend<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Dear Friend,<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for your kind thoughts and blessings. I truly appreciate all of my friends. I know it may appear at times that I have worn myself down by doing too much for everyone else. It&#8217;s in my nature to care about others. This is who I am.<\/p>\n<p>I admit, after many years of suffering the illness MPD, it is difficult for me to grasp the concept that it&#8217;s really okay to accept who I am and not feel the need to constantly serve others before myself. I try the best I can to do both, be kind and caring to everyone, and also take care of myself. I am grateful to be alive and believe that if I could just be there for those who need me, in a way that no one was there for me, then my survival is a blessing and meant to be.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned many lessons from the mistakes I&#8217;ve made. As each day moves forward I realize all I\u2019ve learned and accomplished since becoming one woman, after the integration of my alters. I am far from perfect and will continue to try my best until I no longer am able to.<\/p>\n<p>Karen<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Comment by A most grateful friend on October 16, 2008 11:51 am My dear friend, \u201cKaren\u201d, Knowing you has brought me peace. Peace that you needed to keep for yourself. If it weren\u2019t for you and your caring nature I wouldn\u2019t be where I am today. Being an inspiration to me and all of those [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-282","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-karens-answers"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/282","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=282"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/282\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=282"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=282"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.switchingtime.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=282"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}