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Comment by Paul on February 9, 2009 6:14 pm<\/a><\/p>\n

Karen.<\/p>\n

In the show USofT there isn\u02bct any way a DID patient would act in such a dramatic sexual manner. Agree? I am married to a DID patient and let me tell you, it\u02bcs bullshit. Not one of my wife alters would act in the way Tara\u02bcs alters do. My wife was sexually abused and no way was she like Tara. My wife never even walked around the house in her underwear. My wife felt ashamed of her body. Her alters were very skittish too. Where do you think this story line came from? What are alters supposed to do? and how are alters supposed to act? What about medication, do you agree there is a need for medication?<\/p>\n

Paul<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Dear Paul,<\/p>\n

I have many thoughts about your questions. I realize USoT is a TV show, and not an accurate depiction of what I’ve experienced as a multiple myself, yet I am continually puzzled as to where the writers and producers received their story line from? \u00a0The common thread with alters is for them to work together to keep one functioning as normal as possible. I don’t see this in this show. There is also an exaggeration regarding all the “sex” talk. Since multiplicity comes from extreme child abuse, most alters have little to no interest in sex. If “Tara” was abused, as I assume she was if she were real, then her interest in sex would be less, not more. Multiplicity is a poor excuse for promiscuity. Maybe there’s more to it? I can only give my opinion from my own personal experience.<\/p>\n

Second, in my opinion, true multiples can’t be successfully medicated. It was a wise plot choice to say that “Tara” is off her meds, and that is the reason for her alters to appear more. \u00a0I believe, in my case, medication disabled me, and once off meds, I started the true healing process. \u00a0Avoiding meds was best for me and my alters, but may not be best for someone who truly does need to be medicated for another reason. \u00a0I was stubborn. \u00a0I stopped my medication and didn’t share this with Dr. Baer. \u00a0I believe my healing started after the medication in my system wore off.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Thank you for your thoughts and sharing a bit about your wife. I can understand your frustration with the show. Please know that “The United States of Tara” is not a show about my journey through healing with the real illness of multiplicity. Dr. Baer had worked very hard treating me. \u00a0There is no room for comparison. I am real. Tara is an actress in a TV show.<\/p>\n

It’s true no two cases of multiple personality disorder\/dissociative identity disorder are the same. I think the USoT is a show that is meant to entertain and bring forth much interest and future discussion. The show has also brought some people to read Switching Time in search of the truth about the illness.<\/p>\n

Karen<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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