Comment by Jules on 27 Sep 2009 at 1:35 pm

I thought hey, email will get to Karen ! Yay! So VOILA! Here I am Well my thoughts are here. *tink* *tink* *tink* Yup… the monitor is there.

I’ve been praying for you as often as I think of you which is about once a day. Usually when I’m at the computer thinking of clever, useful things to say. I imagine you at the Center, taking calls, handling pretzel shortages and listening in that oh so helpful way that you do. I see you on facebook, your picture is peaceful. That’s the outsdie image you have. And it’s a truthful one because there is a part of you that is organized and very competent at what you do.

Then there’s the place where you and I connect. Karen, I admire you so much. I know how much and how many people rely on you; the answers for the blog, the peacekeeping you do in your family and the effort to get out of bed when the headaches are strong.

There are people who do amazingly great things with little or no support. They do them faithfully for years. They even do it without commendation or much thanks. Eventually, if the community, family or friends don’t help this person, the ability to give diminishes. It’s well documented in care giving situations. Karen, I don’t want you to feel overstretched, unappreciated or used. You are an inspiration to me. I love your spirit!

Thanks again for the book!

Dear Jules,

Thank you so much for all of your kind thoughts and words. I am touched to hear that I have been an important part of your life. I truly appreciate your concern over my well-being; that means a lot to me! I will continue to try my best to take care of myself as I bring hope to others. Answering questions and doing all that I can to help gives me purpose. Most of all, I believe we all can change the world, one act of kindness at a time. And yes, I am in a care-giving position, here on my blog and at work, but that’s what I love to do. I believe I was meant to share my story. I am also very aware that my spirit, just like each of ours, needs to be nurtured time and again. I am just one woman trying to live in hope of a better tomorrow.

I have faith and even during my dark moments believe I am here for a reason. I understand what you have shared regarding giving too much and not receiving back. I’ve been there quite often. I admit, there are times when I’ve given too much and am left feeling hurt. But I have learned many valuable lessons along the way. Each day I learn something new about myself.

Thank you for your heartfelt advice, gentle reminders, and for caring. I will try my best not to allow myself to be taken advantage of.

Wishing you all my best.

Karen