Comment by Thomas on 11 Jan 2010 at 10:52 am

Karen, Love you! I would like to know what nourishes you and who nourishes you these days? I am absolutely thrilled to have read the journey of you and Dr. Richard Baer. You both give me hope! I never thought there were such care giving people and you and he have given of yourselves. Thank you! All the Best!

Thomas

San Diego, CA

Dear Thomas,

Interesting questions! Thank you for asking! I am nourished by kindness. I flourish when treated with respect. I have endured more than enough pain and can’t handle much pessimism. I do have a high tolerance level, but I still become drained by negative people. When I feel overwhelmed by negativism, I feel as if I’m dying. I need to always be on guard, protect myself, and stay away from people and things that can hurt me.

As a once abused woman, there are times I need to re-connect with positive people just to feel well. These connections nourish me. I feel nourished by listening, sharing, and reading the letters here on my blog, and on Facebook. I thrive on inspiration, good feeling, and giving hope. I try my best to maintain optimism at all times. It’s hard work, but possible. I believe in God and have faith in greater good.

I never imagined I’d find myself in a caring relationship until I gained that sense in therapy. I learned in therapy about trust. I learned that not all people are abusive. It took many years to let go of the pain of my past. I feel blessed and am forever grateful for Dr. Baer’s guidance.

Wishing you all my best.

Karen