Comment by Julie on 12 Feb 2010 at 9:59 pm

Karen,

I just finished reading your book, Switching Time, and it made me feel something I had not felt before when reading a book. I needed to know more about you. I came to the internet to look for you because I needed to know if you are doing well. I needed to know if you’ve finally found peace and happiness in your life. It made me so happy to see that you’re “here”. I hope all is well with you dear Karen. 
I had a very easy childhood with loving parents. Some of my friends who were as lucky as I was have a difficult time understanding this type of horrible abuse exists and don’t want to hear about it. It makes me sad to think one day they’re going to come across a child who needs help but they’re going to look the other way because it’s easier that way. 
I’m sure your story has opened many eyes and many hearts. Thank you for sharing your story. I’m glad you were strong enough not to give up on life. We need you on this side.

Love,

Julie

Dear Julie,

Thank you for sharing! I am well, thank you for asking. I agree my story is an emotionally exhausting but inspirational story to read. It’s a story that can provoke and trigger many feelings. I’m glad to be here, alive and well, answering questions on my blog. I believe by doing so my life has purpose. It’s always been my desire to encourage others, help them through difficult times, and speak out about abuse. I know I can’t change the world but if I can help one person feel a bit better, it’s worth it.

I’m so glad to hear you’ve had loving parents and an easy childhood. I love more than anything to hear stories like that. I’ve always had to imagine a good childhood, mostly through television shows portraying a nice loving family life. I needed to live in fantasy to know a childhood where I could feel loved and cared for.

There are many who can’t comprehend the thought of child sexual abuse such as I’ve endured. You have to put yourself in my place and be able to temporarily feel my pain.  I believe those who have never been hurt can still empathize when knowledge is provided.

I hope once knowledge of what can happen to a child who is abused is shared, those who become aware won’t be able to turn their back on a child they suspect is being hurt. When secrets are revealed, one is forced to face reality.

Thank you for your kind thoughts. I am touched and feel blessed!

Karen