Comment by Dr. Dan on 14 Sep 2011 at 9:16 am

Hello karen, with the ending of therapy you must have ecperiened the ultimate reality shock of richard baer not being real, relationships once assumed cancelled out as if you no longer matter. I assume your pain to be unbearable. How did you manage your well being? What lessons have you learned? That is the story I wish to read in your sequel. Dr. dan

Dear Dr. Dan,

Dr. Baer not real? Cancelled out? I don’t think so. Dr. Baer is very much alive and an important part of my life. We share a respectful friendship and I know I matter to Dr. Baer.  Besides, why would he cancel out our relationship after all that we have accomplished in over eighteen years of work? I admit, there have been ups and downs, but we quickly resolve all issues that threaten our relationship. There is no need to make amends because my pain is not unbearable.

Together, as a team, we have done very well. Sharing our story presented a few new issues to deal with; the legalities of writing a book can be tough on any relationship, but that remains between me and Dr. Baer. My journey continues on. Dr. Baer is there for me if I need him, but I’m trying my best to live my life and be my best self. And yes, the sequel will most certainly tell more of my continuing journey to wellness.

I’m most grateful for Dr. Baer’s care. I would not be here without his support. I truly believe our story is amazing and one of a kind. Dr. Baer and I respect each other and share a forever kind of bond.

Thank you for sharing; I hope my answer changes your thoughts about therapy and relationships.

Karen