Comment by Jay on 26 Feb 2012 at 5:01 pm

Karen,

I was arrested for child molestation twenty years ago and did my time. I served 7 years in prisin. Did my time. Spent 4 years on probation. Did my time. People are cruel and never let me live a normal life. I get dirty looks and no one wants to be my frend. If the police see me on the street they pull me over and ask what I am doing. What would you think if a past child molestor moves near you and you find out. I only abused 4 girls ages ten to thirteen. Three of those girls are maried with family,. One committed suicide. I tried to make frends with you on Face Book why not accept me?

Dear Jay,

I’m glad to hear that you served time for your crimes, but I personally don’t feel that you had learned the lessons you need to survive in the real world. You need to be monitored with an ankle alarm device. You are not well and I’m shocked that you were released from prison with the thoughts you shared with me. When you tried to justify your actions because “we are adults” I felt physically ill.

The reason I chose not to accept your friend request was because of the inappropriate content in the message you sent to me on Facebook. I felt insulted when you stated that children ask to be abused. You also referred to sexual abuse was a kind of intimacy, that you loved the young girls you raped, and that they felt good after the act and told you so. You said “ONLY 4 GIRLS” were abused. Not one girl is to be abused! Ever! You truly have a sick heart.

If you moved near me or anyone with children, I wouldn’t like it. I would make sure everyone in the neighborhood knew about you and watched you. I would like to see former abusers improve their lives with therapy, but I fear not all can change. In my personal opinion, based on your letter to me and this post, you are not healed nor show remorse for your actions. In my opinion, seven years of prison was not enough.

I encourage you to get help quickly and stay away from all children.

Karen